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G Behavioural competence HF-D2.1-004 transversal 8 skills

Listening and probing

Taking in the message of the other party fully, checking whether it is understood correctly and using targeted questions to surface underlying interests and assumptions.

How hrmforce measures this

Assessment method
360-degree feedback
hrmforce instrument
Big Fifty, 360 Feedback
Competency (50-framework)
Listen
Trainability
medium
Demand outlook 2026 to 2030
rising

Multiple raters around the person rate behaviour against behavioural anchors.

This is a selection criterion, not a short-term development goal. Do not put a three-month development plan on it.

Behavioural anchors

LevelBehaviour at this level
N1 Guided Lets the other person finish speaking, takes notes and afterwards asks about anything that stayed unclear.
works under supervision and follows instruction · routine, one variable at a time · own task
N3 Proficient Summarises both the content and the feeling of the other party and probes until the real interest behind the request becomes visible.
sets own approach and seeks input proactively · several variables, some ambiguity · own team or process
N5 Leading Picks up sensitive signals in conversations with directors and supervisors and uses them to adjust organisational policy in good time.
sets the standard and the policy · strategic, under high uncertainty · organisation, value chain or profession

N2 and N4 are deliberately not anchored. Raters place them between the anchors, following the O*NET convention.

Underlying skills

These skills inherit the assessment route and the behavioural anchors of this construct.

TSkillDefinitionDemand outlook 2026 to 2030
G Active listening
Active listening · Attentive listening
Shows through summarising, probing and nonverbal attention that the other person's message is received. rising
G Probing for underlying interests
Probing interests · Interest based questioning
Probes until it is clear which interest or concern lies behind the other person's position. rising
G Paraphrasing
Paraphrasing · Reflecting content
Repeats the other person's message in own words and checks whether that rendering is correct. rising
G Reflecting feeling
Reflecting feelings · Emotion labelling
Names the feeling that comes through in the other person's words or posture and checks it. rising
G Using silence deliberately
Using silence · Pausing in conversation
Allows a silence after a question or emotion so the other person has room to continue. rising
G Avoiding interruption
Avoiding interruption · Letting others finish
Lets the other person finish and holds own reactions until there is room for them. rising
G Checking for understanding
Checking understanding · Comprehension check
Asks explicitly whether the message came across as intended and repairs it where it did not. rising
G Checking assumptions in conversation
Checking assumptions · Clarifying interpretation
Puts own interpretation of what the other said forward and asks whether that reading is right. rising
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