empathy
Putting oneself in another person's situation and feelings, reflecting that back in own words and acting with regard for that situation.
How hrmforce measures this
- Assessment method
- Personality questionnaire · rho 0.40 (SD 0.15)
- hrmforce instrument
- Big Fifty, 360 Feedback
- Competency (50-framework)
- Sensitivity
- Trainability
- medium
- Demand outlook 2026 to 2030
- rising
Self-report of behavioural preferences. At hrmforce the Big Fifty and the 15PF.
This is a selection criterion, not a short-term development goal. Do not put a three-month development plan on it.
Behavioural anchors
| Level | Behaviour at this level |
|---|---|
| N1 Guided | Listens to another person without interrupting and asks how the situation feels for that person. works under supervision and follows instruction · routine, one variable at a time · own task |
| N3 Proficient | Summarises the other person's feelings and interests before proposing a solution and checks whether that summary is correct. sets own approach and seeks input proactively · several variables, some ambiguity · own team or process |
| N5 Leading | Builds room for the perspective of those affected into policy and processes and addresses managers on impersonal decision making. sets the standard and the policy · strategic, under high uncertainty · organisation, value chain or profession |
N2 and N4 are deliberately not anchored. Raters place them between the anchors, following the O*NET convention.
Underlying skills
These skills inherit the assessment route and the behavioural anchors of this construct.
| T | Skill | Definition | Demand outlook 2026 to 2030 |
|---|---|---|---|
| G | Summarising the other person's feelings Reflective listening | Reflecting back in own words what a counterpart appears to experience and asking whether that is correct. | rising |
| V | Asking after a client's perspective Customer perspective | Asking how the client experiences the situation before offering a solution to a complaint or question. | rising |
| V | Delivering bad news with care Delivering bad news | Delivering a rejection or unfavourable decision clearly, leaving room for the reaction and naming next steps. | rising |
| G | Allowing room for emotion in a conversation Holding space | Pausing a conversation when someone is affected and only continuing with the content afterwards. | rising |
| G | Taking the other person's situation into account Considering context | Weighing what is going on in the other person's circumstances when making work agreements. | rising |
| V | Testing assumptions about another person Checking assumptions | Voicing an assumption about someone's intention out loud and having it confirmed or corrected. | rising |
| G | Restoring contact after a clash Repairing relationships | Seeking out the conversation after a clash, naming the effect and making the working relationship workable again. | rising |